Showing posts with label Personality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personality. Show all posts

Monday, March 14, 2016

Clues That You May Be A Walk-In

There is a phenomena happening now in increasing ways and it is something that it would be good to know about whether this is an experience that you are having or somebody you know is having. 

Any or all of these ways are not necessarily going to mean that you’re a walk-in or that somebody else is but many of these circumstances when taken together or when found together might suggest that you are a walk-in.

One of the things that is most significant that often happens is a combination of factors. Here are some prominent aspects of the factors.

You notice that some things that you were always interested in, or perhaps just one or two, you’re no longer quite as interested in anymore or you notice that some things that you’ve never been interested in before suddenly seem to be very interesting and you pursue knowledge about these things.

Also, here’s a more significant one because it impacts your life. You notice that some things that you’ve never been able to do, they’ve always been too hard or you’ve just been reluctant to learn, you find that you can easily accomplish these things now. It’s as if somebody threw a switch and suddenly you’re able to do it and you can’t imagine why you never were able to do that in the past.

Also some friends you have, usually not a loved one - more likely some friends you have that may or may not really be very close, you lose interest in. It doesn’t mean you will break up friendships with them but it might mean that you find that you’re interested in other types of people. They might be people that you’ve never really been interested in before. 

This doesn’t necessarily refer to nationalities or races or it could. It often refers to people with certain types of jobs or interests in life or things they’re pursuing that you suddenly find very interesting.

In short, your ideas, your perceptions and your pursuits of life suddenly seem to take a turn. It won’t be an extreme turn but it will be a noticeable turn.

This is important to know because if it’s happening to you, you might notice these things as clues that it’s possible that you are a walk-in. If, on the other hand, it’s happening to somebody you know or somebody you love then it’s also important to know that they are not crazy - okay?

This is one of the biggest factors when it happens to people. There’s a tendency when it happens to you that you think, “What’s wrong with me” but at times because you’re suddenly able to do things that you weren’t able to do before you could ask that question as, “What’s right with me?”

So, for the most part, the walk-in experience is a good and refreshing one. It often allows you to let go of aspects of your personality in the past that were harmful or self-destructive in some way and notice that there are aspects of your personality now that are much more constructive. 

If that happens to somebody around you don’t fight it too much, just roll with it, it might turn out to be a very good thing for you and them.

If you want to know more about walk-ins and what you can experience as a walk-in and how you can handle the experience, whether it’s happening to you or somebody else, I have a new book out now and you can get it right here from Light Technology. You can also acquire it online and here are some of the links. To Amazon, to iBooks and to Barnes and Noble nook

The book is called Are You A Walk-In? I hope you enjoy it. 



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Saturday, May 31, 2014

Spirituality and Personality - You Can Have Both, Part 2

It’s in the nature of spiritual work that the practitioner needs to be kind, considerate and gentle very often with your work and of course have a desire to want to be of help. Most of you know this.

It can happen, though it does not always, that some people will identify your compassion and kindness with - as you do your work - as it being your full time personality. Sometimes this is simply because that’s the only time or place they ever encounter you. Other times it’s because they actually need to believe that there are people like that and of course, while you may wish to be like that all the time you are after all - like everyone else - a human being. So, please do not expect yourself to be perfect all the time.

Sometimes you may have to let them know just by letting your natural personality come out - not in an overwhelming way but just as yourself - that you are also who you are for yourself and with your friends and loved ones.

So sometimes people will express or somehow emanate to you, or even the word getting back to you, that they were disappointed that you weren’t really as perfect as they thought you were. 

Instead of being worried about that, breathe a sigh of relief and know that it is very important - yes - to keep up your professional standards and ethics and it is almost as important to just be yourself when you’re not at work. 

Please do that or consider it seriously. Otherwise you might be holding yourself up to an unrealistic expectation, perhaps begun by others but if you perpetuate it yourself this unrealistic expectation can become a burden and might in time cause you to let go of your work or want to get away from it before its time.

So, it’s alright to be yourself.


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